
That being so completely self-controlled will give them the joys and pleasures they want as a reward for being so good
Enneagram Two
That being so focused and intent on others means that they themselves can really do no wrong
Enneagram Three
That doing what they think they want is more often doing what they think they should want and not understanding the difference between the two
Enneagram Four
That being so in touch with their feelings and pondering them with such great intensity makes them real, when the feelings they explore and express are neither their deepest nor their most real feelings
Enneagram Five
That they don’t either know or experience their feelings states when their emotions are actually extremely pure
Enneagram Six
That their bearing down on a problem with great intensity and focus on serious issues confronting them will somehow get the issue solved or resolved
Enneagram Seven
That they are propelled in perpetuity to live a life with a deep hole inside themselves when all they need to do is go inside themselves
Enneagram Eight
That they don’t dare let their guard down because if they do, something terrible will happen to them
Enneagram Nine
That they are so consistently kind and nice, without recognizing that their under-experienced and unexpressed anger has painful consequences for them and others
Great insight, thank you!