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Development | Humility

Humility is often misunderstood as self-deprecation, modesty or even a lack of arrogance. But self-deprecation, or having a low estimate of oneself, is not humility. Neither is modesty or its cousin, false modesty, the same as humility. A person can

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Development | Quotes from the Dalai Lama

Quotes from the Dalai Lama The Dalai Lama is a simple, profound and prescient human being. Here are quotes from this humble man, one for each Enneagram type. ONES “Love is the absence of judgment.” TWOS “If you don’t love

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Topic of the month | Affirmations

Louise Hay, founder of the Hay House as well as a prolific writer and spiritual teacher, strongly believed in the power of affirmations. Although she is no longer on the planet, her words live still. Here are affirmations for each

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Speaking Clearly

Ones | Although Ones speak precisely, this is not the same as speaking clearly. Speak from your heart as well as your gut and mind; this will not only slow down your responses, they will become more pure and clear.

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Tricky Typing

I really do love helping people sort out their types and doing so without any energetic pushing, just allowing the type to show up when the person is ready to see it. The more I work with people toward this

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Development | Adding values

The 9 Enneagram types have certain values they hold dear, values that guide their thinking, emotional responses and behaviors. What if each Enneagram type also embraced a core value from one of its arrow lines. What a difference this could

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Development | Being misunderstood

“The worst distance between two people is misunderstanding.” ~ Neetesh Dixit We can all be misunderstood, and some of the reasons are of our own making. Here are the ways each type often gets misunderstood and what people of each

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Development | Intuition

Development | Intuition   Often you have to rely on intuition. ~ Bill Gates But can you rely on your intuition if you haven’t yet tapped into it or have blocked it in some way? Here are some thoughts for

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Development | Reduce Stress

      Development | Reduce Stress The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.  ~William James         ONES Which self-statement causes Ones stress? Stress inducing | What is going wrong

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Rumi Poem | Type 5

Rumi Poem | Type 5 Open your hands If you want to be held ~ Rumi Why is this an important poem for type Fives to use for reflection? Fives appear as if they need very little from others and

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